been a ruff week so i'm finally updating. i will update on that in a minute. but first lets talk about sex baby.
the new series at kaleo is what's between the sheets. it's beyond amazing. this first week was attraction:
so i will go through notes and thoughts and some how hopefully give a good summary...
song of solomon is a book of 2 peoples relationship
1.1-8
you can not make a 'spiritual compartment' for your life. it is your life! you can not separate it.
there are two parts of attraction. the physical and the inner.
physical:
as the woman is describing solomon to us she pretty much states 'solomon looks delicious' for a physical attraction we will use all of our senses as much as we can to be attracted to them. there's a right timing and context for everything throughout song of solomon. so all that she is telling us is at the right time.
there is no 'talking' phase. you just have to trust God and go for it almost if you feel this is what He wants you to do.
inner:
vs. 3 says 'Your oils have a pleasing fragrance, Your name is like purified oil; Therefore the maidens love you.' their name represented who they were. it represented their character. and purified oil was the 1st press of oil and was taking directly to the temple. it was 'holy'
you need to ask 3 questions.
1 who are they under pressure?
this was how you are able to define their integrity. as for you they may hide this because they are attracted to you in some sense so it may not show. it will find it's way out. and it may be directed towards you... you need to know how they will react.
2 what do other people think?
this will tell their reputation. would you like to be with someone with this reputation? it should be a privilege to be with them.
would it be an honor to be asked out by him?
would you bring them to church. would you be proud to bring them home to mom.
why date someone you wouldn't marry. this is the whole point of dating! if you just date around and what not this is what will build your reputation. if you hold out this will build your reputation. how do you want to be known.
3 what do they think of themselves?
this is their humble confidence. do they respect themselves. do they think highly of themselves.
vs. 5-6 says 'I am black but lovely, O daughters of Jerusalem, Like the tents of Kedar, Like the curtains of Solomon, Do not stare at me because I am swarthy, For the sun has burned me. My mother's sons were angry with me; They made me caretaker of the vineyards, But I have not taken care of my own vineyard.'
she is ok with the way that she is even though it's not what society wants. she has put herself aside in order to take care of her family. she has been submissive to her brothers. She then goes on to pretty much to state that she wants to hang out with solomon and get to know him and have a relationship. but not sexually. she will not compromise herself. she's going to stand firm in what she believes and feels is right.
character is the root of true attraction.
then bill went on to close it with 1 peter 2.24-25
if you want to here more or i missed something you can go to kaleohouston.com and download the audio.
the new series at kaleo is what's between the sheets. it's beyond amazing. this first week was attraction:
so i will go through notes and thoughts and some how hopefully give a good summary...
song of solomon is a book of 2 peoples relationship
1.1-8
you can not make a 'spiritual compartment' for your life. it is your life! you can not separate it.
there are two parts of attraction. the physical and the inner.
physical:
as the woman is describing solomon to us she pretty much states 'solomon looks delicious' for a physical attraction we will use all of our senses as much as we can to be attracted to them. there's a right timing and context for everything throughout song of solomon. so all that she is telling us is at the right time.
there is no 'talking' phase. you just have to trust God and go for it almost if you feel this is what He wants you to do.
inner:
vs. 3 says 'Your oils have a pleasing fragrance, Your name is like purified oil; Therefore the maidens love you.' their name represented who they were. it represented their character. and purified oil was the 1st press of oil and was taking directly to the temple. it was 'holy'
you need to ask 3 questions.
1 who are they under pressure?
this was how you are able to define their integrity. as for you they may hide this because they are attracted to you in some sense so it may not show. it will find it's way out. and it may be directed towards you... you need to know how they will react.
2 what do other people think?
this will tell their reputation. would you like to be with someone with this reputation? it should be a privilege to be with them.
would it be an honor to be asked out by him?
would you bring them to church. would you be proud to bring them home to mom.
why date someone you wouldn't marry. this is the whole point of dating! if you just date around and what not this is what will build your reputation. if you hold out this will build your reputation. how do you want to be known.
3 what do they think of themselves?
this is their humble confidence. do they respect themselves. do they think highly of themselves.
vs. 5-6 says 'I am black but lovely, O daughters of Jerusalem, Like the tents of Kedar, Like the curtains of Solomon, Do not stare at me because I am swarthy, For the sun has burned me. My mother's sons were angry with me; They made me caretaker of the vineyards, But I have not taken care of my own vineyard.'
she is ok with the way that she is even though it's not what society wants. she has put herself aside in order to take care of her family. she has been submissive to her brothers. She then goes on to pretty much to state that she wants to hang out with solomon and get to know him and have a relationship. but not sexually. she will not compromise herself. she's going to stand firm in what she believes and feels is right.
character is the root of true attraction.
then bill went on to close it with 1 peter 2.24-25
if you want to here more or i missed something you can go to kaleohouston.com and download the audio.
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